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BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT A CURE FOR LONELINESS

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I just finished having a phone conversation with a good friend who is complaining of feeling Lonely and she needs to start a new relationship with a man to stop feeling lonely. Mind you this is someone who just broke up with her Ex boyfriend after 2years of dating last week. I had to ask her, Girl won’t you want to give yourself time to heal and get over your Ex before starting another relationship? It is best you give yourself time to heal and get over your Ex so you don’t carry your baggage from your last relationship to go and bleed on the next innocent guy.  My girlfriend said she is not an Introvert like me that loves and enjoys staying alone. Girl said she needs a man in her life to do away with loneliness and to help her forget about her Ex boyfriend quickly.  There is nothing I hate more than to hear ladies complain of being lonely so they need a man to keep away loneliness? Do you know there are a lot of married men and women who complain of being lonely in their marriages? La

Gratitude: What Are You Thankful For?

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  When it comes to gratitude, there is so much to be thankful for. The people in our lives, the health and well-being we enjoy, the material things that bring us comfort, and the intangible things that bring us joy.  Gratitude is not just a feeling, it's a way of life.  It's about appreciating the good in our lives and being grateful for what we have.  In this blog post, we'll explore all the things we have to be thankful for, and how gratitude can enrich our lives. “What are you grateful for about your family?", "What are some of the best memories you have with your friends?", and "How do the people in your life make your life better?"  "What are you grateful for about your physical health?", "What are you grateful for about your mental health?", and "What healthy habits are you grateful for?"  "What material things are you grateful for?", "How do these material things make your life better?", and &

The Importance of Respect: Building Healthy and Productive Relationships

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Respect is not just a polite way of interacting with others, it's an essential foundation for healthy and meaningful relationships.  Without respect, we cannot truly connect with others or build trust.  Respect allows us to communicate honestly and openly, and to understand and accept each other for who we are.  Without respect, our relationships become strained and unfulfilling. Respect is the glue that holds our lives together.  Without it, our relationships would crumble and our society would fall apart.  We all want to be respected, but what does respect really mean?  In this article, we will explore the true meaning of respect and how it can transform our lives and relationships for the better. The first thing to know about respect is that it's not just about saying "please" and "thank you".  It's about truly valuing and appreciating others for who they are.  Respect is not just words, it's an attitude and a way of being in the world.  The next

Finding Joy in the little things of life.

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  It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, chasing after big achievements and grand goals.  But sometimes, it's the little things that really make life worth living. The simple moments of joy that happen every day are often the ones that bring the most happiness. We live in a world that's constantly telling us to strive for more, to be bigger and better.  But sometimes, in our pursuit of bigger goals, we lose sight of the small joys that make life special.  In this post, we'll discover why the little things are often the most meaningful and fulfilling, and how to find joy in the everyday moments of life. Let's start with a simple truth: it's often the little things that bring the most happiness.  A child's laugh, a warm cup of coffee on a cold morning, the feeling of sunshine on your face.  These simple moments are often overlooked, but they are the ones that truly make life worth living. They are the moments that fill our hearts with joy

Mind your own Business.

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  We live in a world that's full of distractions and noise.  From social media to the news, it can be hard to focus on what really matters.  But what if you could tune out all that noise and focus on your own goals and dreams?  That's the power of "mind your own business. “ First, let's talk about what it means to "mind your own business".  I think it's about focusing on your own life and goals, and not worrying about what others are doing.  It's about taking control of your own life, rather than letting others dictate your path.  When we say we are "minding  our own business", I think it's important to emphasize that it's not about being selfish or ignoring the needs of others.  It's about focusing on what you can control and making the best choices for your own life.  It's about setting boundaries and taking care of yourself so that you can be the best version of yourself.  So, let's move on to some specific tips for &q

Game Changers: How to Make a Difference in Your Own Way.

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  In a world that can often feel overwhelming and chaotic, it's easy to feel like we're just along for the ride.  But what if we could all be game changers, making a difference in our own unique ways?  This blog post will explore what it means to be a game changer, and how anyone can play a role in making the world a better place.  No matter your background or circumstances, you have the power to be a game changer. A game changer is someone who has the courage to challenge the status quo, and who is committed to making a positive impact on the world.  Game changers don't just accept the way things are; they strive to make them better.  They see problems as opportunities for growth and innovation.  They're not afraid to take risks, and they're always learning and growing. You don't need to be rich or famous to be a game changer.  You don't need to have a lot of power or influence.  All you need is the desire to make a difference, and the willingness to take a

Rise above the storm: Staying positive and hopeful in difficult times.

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  When life throws us curveballs, it can be tough to stay positive and hopeful.  The storms of life can seem overwhelming, and it can be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel.  But it's important to remember that we have the power to rise above the storm. By focusing on our strengths and staying positive, we can weather any storm that comes our way. A positive mindset is important for overall well-being, both physical and mental. It can help you weather the storms of life and come out stronger on the other side.  Practicing gratitude, mindfulness, and self-compassion are some simple and effective ways to cultivate a positive mindset.  Practice taking a few minutes each day to reflect on the things you're grateful for, no matter how big or small. This practice has been shown to have a number of benefits, including increased happiness, improved sleep, and reduced stress levels.  Let’s talk about mindfulness which is the practice of being fully present in the moment, with